» Love, destiny and hope..

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010 by Najwa Haryani

Everyone has their own perception of this ‘love thing’. Aritu ada sembang2 ngan seorg teman.. Make me think deeply of what we always are.

Dia cakap love is both ways. Untuk kita menjadi kesukaan dia, menjadi ape yang dia nak, we have to sacrifice. Sometimes it is for our own good. Change positively or change to be a better person. Dalam diri ni, kita ada 100% of our existing attitude. Bila kita dah berpasangan, kita kekalkan 50% sikap kita dan buang 50% lagi.. sbbnya 50% tu kita akan ambil dari pasangan.. Menjadi ape dia harapkan dari kita dan sbgnya. But if let say, dia tak ambil 50% dari kita menjadi kebiasaan dia. It shows a problem there. Itu menunjukkan one way not two ways love.

Love is give and take situation not a win-win situation. This statement makes me think the perception of love by others. And I kinda agree. One thing that I’ve learnt we have to love ourself, accept our spouse to be in the way they are. Kalo tak satu hari nnt kita akan saling menyalahkan sbb tak dapat ape yang kita nak dr pasangan.

Love is not a reflection of what we want them to be. It is accepting them to be in you. Sbb kalo benda yang kita suka dah tade we will tend to make a move. And maybe this is not love of what you think it is.

Sometimes the destiny is not what we always want to be. Not in the way we expected.

But hoping the best for ourselves will make us breath, make us alive. I’m hoping my destiny to be good for me and not only to be in the way I expected it to be. Every dark cloud has its own silver lining. He knows that and we know not. Do pray the best for ourselves. But maybe what is written for us is good for others. Try to accept that. But one thing to bear in mind keeps the sweet moment with us forever. Just let it flow. The time will decide. :)









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2 Responses to “Love, destiny and hope..”

  1. linn si pari pari Says:
    January 22nd, 2010 at 1:46 pm

    i think i know that teman very well.. but like what i always say .. sharing is caring… wish luck to both of u.. make it two way.. everybody have their own problem.. but we also have our way to settle it down..

  2. Najwa Haryani Says:
    January 23rd, 2010 at 3:08 pm

    thanks ye kak.. i’m hoping the good things..
    as long as it good for him n for me.. :)
    btw. All the best to both of you too..

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